So he says he needs "alone time" a day that he doesnt have to deal with anyone. should i be concerned?
I think in guy language thats " Im fucking someone else and dont want u catching me"
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Yea if I ever said I needed to be alone guys would assume I'm cheating. Guys are hypocrites.
6:28, people are douches for wanting to spend some time on their own?
It means you need to stop being so damn annoying and clingy. Enjoy your alone time too!
I usually require two days per week of alone time. This does not mean I need a new bitch to deal with it means I need a brief respite from the current one. Time by yourself is amazing, most people cannot be happy alone and therefore must surround themselves with fake friends and idle inane chatter.
guys trying to understand women=total fail.
girls trying to understand guys=total fail.
let's just leave it at that.
alone time means your whiney and needy and dont let him play video games or jerk off. be thankful he is not inviting you over to watch him do one or both.
it means ur a fat ugly bitch and you smother him!!
No all this means is that you are plain f*kin borin in the sack bitch try anal or swallow once in a while it wont kill you
5:14 It has nothing to do with being an introvert, just because someone doesn't want to spend ALL their time with someone doesn't make them an introvert. Everyone needs personal space.
It means he needs some fucking alone time. Quit being so paranoid. You make us sane girls look just as insane as you.
Eh, I as a girl need more alone time than my boyfriend does. You'd be surprised how annoyed a guy can get when the tables are turned and the girlfriend wants a day to herself without having to talk to the boyfriend.
If your boyfriend cheats on you, you can't consider yourself completely blameless. Maybe learn to suck a better dick, shut your mouth and listen up.
10:37 ur very smart. thats what i did. he called me a slut and his best friend kicked his ass. :D
Leave him to his man cave (Hi, HJ!) so he can do all the stuff mentioned in 5:35, psycho bitch! I hope he dumps your clingy ass because you won't let him poop and watch sports in peace.
Alone time means either of two things: 1. I need time to get the fuck away from you. 2. I need some guy time that is not with you.
Fuck his best friend.
YALL BITCHZ NEED TO MAKE ME A DAMN SANDWICH
No, it means he wants to live his life too.
my boyfriend told me he needed alone time n he hooked up with another girl in the matter of minutes. asshole.
it means that you shouldn't fucking smother him and let him have his own time too. can't he have his own life or must it revolve around you? needy bitch
and 4:14 makes a very good point.
No 6:42. People on this site are douches for saying things like 4:59. Dumbass.
9:39, theyre the same person (9:29 and 9:31), i was just assuming, and i was right i guess...he didnt trust you bc he was a loony
Unlike sluts, whores, and girls in general, when a guy usually says something...we mean it literally. We don't in code like our vagina-wielding counterparts.
He is currently naked while playing halo and getting head from your little sister/hotter friend. good luck with that clingy bitch thing, hope it helps you hang on to a winner.
5:51 and 8:26 = totally on point.
My ex pulled the same shit, but when I needed time alone, he thought I was cheating/talking to someone else.
Just proves that guys can be totally insecure and selfish.
Way to fucking overanalize it. He just wants a day off. Most guys AREN'T actually cheating liars, just like all girls aren't whores. If you're that immature that you can't handle one day without him,you're getting way obssesive maybe you need to grow up a little. Jesus. Im a girl, FYI.
guys... all she said was "should i be concerned?" how is that clingy? she's not even sure she should be worried about him saying that. and the response was probably a joke.
it means jacking off is better than listening to your bullshit as a trade for sex
i'm a chick and i DEFINTETLY need alone time
Alone time means alone time. I love my gf and spend most of my spare time with her but sometimes i like to partake in activities that she doesnt enjoy, like jacking off and playing xbox, so i do that by myself. If you insist on reading into it than all it means is masturbation and video games.
wow it seems like a lot of guys here just hate females in general. are most girls really that clingy and annoying? in my last relationship, my boyfriend would get mad at me if I had to study for a test and time me to see how long it took.
"vagina wielding counterparts?" yeah you're a virgin.
Lol Lol Lol
I like swinging..It is banging...so just hold off and let him blow a load off lol
No matter how stressful or easy their lives are, all guys need some "don't talk to me" time each day. It's called "the cave."
Don't question it, just respect it. Also...tell him when you talk you don't always want a solution, just somebody to listen and say, "oh, ok. Interesting. Hmmmm."
It's called, leave him the fuck alone. I'm a girl, and I need alone time, too. I guess that's because most of my friends throughout my whole life have been guys. It also probably explains my sexual appetite.
if your wanting to spend more time with him, questioning his man-cave time is only going to make him want to spend less with you, or break it off. if only all girls could figure things like this out, that guys usually actually mean what they say, whereas with girls it means something else.
hahahaha everyone is totally bashing on this girl...awesome.
nope, some guys are actually sensitive and aren't locked into the BS restricted emotionality enforced on most guys from birth and by society that they can't get away from. not to say that's what he's doing, he could easily be a guy talking BS not to hurt your feelings, but in even saying that he's caring about the feelings of whoever's he's talking to. if he were being "honest" he wouldn't need to bullshit and would be blunt and obnoxious about it.
All of the above posts are correct.
guys really do need time to be alone. usually has nothing to do with you. it is necessary for our sanity.
alone time = video games in underwear
not deal with anyone all day = kill braindawgs all day
o and the girls that are sayin that guys do this alot, you must have shit taste in men, because no decent guy would interrogate you
God damn can all if you men who post on this site wear shirts that say DOUCHE in big red letters so I can stay the fuck away from you at all times? Sweet Jesus.
Or he could be tapping that hottie in 3B.
He's an introvert, most likely. All introverts need alone time. Nothing to do with being a girl or a guy.
5:54, you're just mad because you didn't know what "wielding" meant before you googled it.
no 1:45, guys who get laid don't call girls "vagina wielding counterparts." its true.
3:05, It's also possible that 443 might be trying to feed this girl ideas so they break up and she can fuck him herself.
9:31 is right. My taste in guys did suck. And to 9:29, I am not a liar or cheater. He was definitely just insecure.
He's definitely banging someone else...definitely
He is a loony. I like to call it fucking crazy, or insane but loony fits the bill, too.
man cave is a need sometimes.
2:46, I think it's more about the following text, it screams insecurity
Word up 3:03.. I like being around people and am very sociable but after that period just need solitude to get myself together, as I'm otherwise a pretty private person. Lots of acquaintances, few close friends. I prefer it that way. Girl here, but I went out with a guy who couldn't understand that and it ended pretty quickly for that reason.
he's prob fucking someone else...bc your so clingy and dont give him alone time
"lmao @ all the men here getting offended. are you afraid that women have found out your secret?
July 11, 2009 6:38PM"
If you truly believe that, you are a retard. Please don't ever breed. Ever.
Let the man breathe. It's okay for a man to find happiness in other places besides being under his girlfriend all day.
It's all about timing, people need alone time just as much as they need time together. If both of your needs are synced then no one will have hurt feelings or feel smothered. Also, some people are just generally paranoid or insecure, turning this into a war of the sexes is just childish.
no it doesn't mean he's cheating. my boyfriend said the same thing to me, it just means that he wants to do what he wants to do whenever he wants to without having to answer to you...give him space..believe me if he's telling you he needs his alone time then give it to him because if you don't he'll leave you & then youll have no one to blame but yourself
oh whatever. Next time he calls when you want to be alone be honest enough to say it. I will guarantee he won't like it anymore than you do.
ugh! quit being such a clingy bitch for a second! if you weren't so obnoxious in the first place he probably would not need alone time. I am sick of your clingy ass from just that one text!
completely false. its just that dealing with the incessant word vomit about girl drama and forced interest in the new haircuts, clothes, and/or jewelry you expect us to care about is arduous and tiresome.
or you're just annoying.
could go either way.
9:54 um are you 12 years old? who says loony? get off this site and go to bed.
alone time means alone time... halo isn't gonna play itself
girls need alone time, too. i find most guys kinda clingy, personally.
to the man cave!
it goes both ways.. both sides need space... tho women. (I take that back.. "girls") tend to be confused by it. fail
All guys need a little alone time, but girls dont. This proves that no one should ever get married...ever!
5:46, no one is going to read your novella. This is shitty TFLN.
lmao @ all the men here getting offended. are you afraid that women have found out your secret?
alone just means he wants time alone--i mean of course he could be cheating but he could also be doing any number of other things. i would just back off a little bit, give him alone time and enjoy your alone time (i like playing final fantasy in my underwear too!!!) and getting stoned and watching absolutely fabulous :)
8:35, 90 percent of chicks speak in code and always put different and double meanings behind things...basically, this girl sounds like a psycho, and your bf probably didnt trust you for a good reason
If you want him to be happy, Blow him and leave so he can watch his sports, scratch his balls, and not have to deal with any women for a day.