I hate to make this sociological, but I kinda blame society because it puts more emphasis on the guy's pleasure... you know... "get in, get off, go home"
It should start with sex ed, in fact, it should be a key part of it.
it's NORMALLY easier for guys, so focusing on teaching guys to PROPERLY please women would be intelligent. but somehow i doubt it'll happen. So guys, like me, will have to learn on our own.
wow...i dated a guy like that for 3 years (from 16-19). it was AWFUL. After we broke up, I said, "Kiss my ass. Oh, and I faked it every time." Ah, the look on his face. Then I fell in bed with some guy I worked with, and it was great. And now we're married. Good sex is important.
WHy would you do that? did you have no respect for the 3 years you guys were together? Why not just explain to him you wanted to have better sex and train him to do it? hes young he was probably inexperienced!
it's so easy for guys to get off. girls take a little more effort. you have to have some idea of what you are doing. but once you find her hot spots, you own her. helpful tip: tongue works better than fingers.
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