what age do we have to be before we can stop fucking guys on the first date?
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you know, as far as i'm concerned, if 2 consenting adults want to have sex on the first date, go for it. if the guy/girl in question doesn't talk to you after, they were obviously only after one thing which makes them not worth it anyways. if they like you, they'll stick around. i sound like dr. fucking phil but it's true...if you wanna fuck, fuck.
2:22 Nothing it is just another screening process of quality girls.
I've found that sucking good dick can be just as affective as fucking. Everyone wins!
wow where are you girls finding these guys who expect you to put out on the first date? are you the same ones who can't be single for 2 weeks without losing respect for yourself?? this has never happened to me, believe me i love sex but 1 date? in my books that's a one-night stand... then i realise that guy is not dating material.
If you have to ask, you probably know the answer. It depends on who/what you're looking for.
yeah...totally a ligit question lol
Personal preferences. If you want to have sex on the first date, have sex on the first date.
And no more of this stupid only girls are whores thing, if Stephen Colbert can own up to being a whore, then all other whores of the male gender can too.
O.C. being well represented ;)
Not really, who wants to have a relationship with someone who does that? It's a favor to her too.
Wait having sex on the first date is a bad thing? Shit, I better go tell my husband that.
I agree with OP. Guys always expect it on the first date, there has to be an age.
yeah, definatly making O.C. look good, just like the show did the same thing. I hate when people think just because I live here I'm like that.
Well, I also know, but that's because I was hiding in the closet at the time.
protip: if you're a girl asking this question you're dating a fucking bro
Oh, please. Fake tfln and has to be a guy. Any girl who has to worry about this should probably stop doing it. Otherwise go for it and anyone who tells them they are skanks are probably just jealous. Like guys who never get any.
isn't part of the fun in the first time you have sex with a guy the built up tension? idk but I know quite a few guys who like the thrill of the hunt. some guys lose interest after you give it up too soon.
Always put out on first date. Don't they teach that in grade school.
Most guys lose interest to soon because you gave it them to soon, but ive learn if you stay on the dl, let them find out and give him spmething to look forward for. There would be nothong left to discover. They say they hate games, oh thats so not true,as long as you dont play tooo hard. Just like when a guy calls you back after a first date, you dont answer and call him back the day after because you were "busy." Give them something forward for like i said.
this is pathetic...i mean, really.
Am I the only one who thinks this is a legit question?
never expected any on the first date...maybe that's why i never had sex on one
Anytime now would be a good idea.
8.35 thats how i live my life.
3.23 that is ridiculous. People don't just go to nightclubs to have sex - if you meet someone and you want to, fine. If you just want to dance and have a good time, and maybe even meet someone but then NOT have sex with them, also fine. It's all good - do what's right for you.
Depends on how old you want to be before you get married. Like it or not that's the deal.
how old are you now?
all you have to do is be an interesting and appealing person so the guy has a reason to go back. this way if you hold out on him, he will want it more
Ps THIS IS 2010, ABSTINENCE IS THE NEW THING 0_0
Wow. Trust me- you don't have to be a "bible beater" to wait a few dates. All you need is a little self respect.
i didnt even have a real date with my boyfriend before we messed around.....if you want to count "hanging out" as a date, then we "hung out" twice and i blew him both times. we've been together for over a year now. guess he just can't get enough :)
...I just don't think you have to put out on the FIRST date is all. Mystery is fun, you know?
I enjoy a girl who is not prude about sex...it feels good so why bash having lots of it...you just have to practice safe sex
This is so sad. Young girls are such skeevy vapid skank whores these days.
6:28- right on.
I hate the word "skank". You're only a skank if you do it because you have no confidence. If you do it because you like it, then you're cool.
why is it up to the girls to not screw on the first date? why don't we start judging you boys for it instead...obviously you are no different if you fuck the first time right
This is just sad..... Only have sex with someone because you want to. If the guy's not wanting to wait until you feel like having sex, then he's not worth your time. There are guys out there that are willing to wait.....
you people are retarded, whats wrong with banging on first date? its not like u are gonna marry her. bunch of fucking wimps, then u wonder why u dont get laid.
everyone should just have sex, and not feel guilty, or not have sex and not feel guilty. and also not feel superior. or at least shut up about it.
if you have hangups about sex, and you're fucking all the time and not working through your hangups, then there's something wrong. otherwise, I think you're okay.
i've been wondering that myself. i think when we start dating guys who are old enough to be so desperate that they'll pay for another dinner or two.
3:13 go back to the 50's im guessing you are single
so is sex...
and 608, totally right.
I'm just going to ditto 10.27.
Why don't people have more self respect in yourself. If your not confident enough in yourself, and feel the only way of validation in any relationship is to spread your legs on the first date, you have NO self respect.
There's no set age, just know enough not to fuck around. I, personally, would like to know the person I'm going to fuck. Wrapped up or not, there are still ways to get an STD, and I'd rather know the person i'm with doesn't have any.
I say fuck on first date to decide if HE is worth a second date. Nothing more depressing than holding out till third date to find out he is small, or worse, BAD. Do what you like but love yoruself. Word.
in my experience, if you like a guy hold out for the third date. . . if they push you really hard on the first date, they obviously don't feel the same. . . if you don't really like a guy, fuck them the first date: if they're good keep them around till you get bored, if they suck, don't ever answer their texts again. there, rules to live by. always use guys: they like it, and so do you, everything else doesn't really matter.
How about "the age where you have some self respect"?
Many guys won't date a girl that fucks on the first date, because they wonder how many guys she has done that with and nobody wants to date something that was easy to get. The challenge is what keeps guys interested, otherwise you turn into just a nice place to fuck and he fucks around on you
how old? you have to be born. then you're old enough to know better
if you can afford to pay for your own drinks/food/etc, you shouldn't feel obligated to slut around on first date.
Having sex on a first date constantly leads to failed relationships.
Stronger relationships are built on holding out (at least a short while) on the physical part.
If all you care about is getting off, who cares what date you have sex on?
never if you want it go for it
if it feels good, do it!! no one else has to know about it except you and him.
You're doing it because you feel obligated?
...i have a feeling that this was not a serious question and so does not require a heated debate.
323, I don't know about high school but I do remember learning that from an episode of Undressed on MTV.
dear girl who submitted this,
please have respect for yourself and your sisters. never give it up on the first date, never. make the guy prove himself. maybe i'm old fashioned, but i need an i love you first and at least a month. think about it.
Don't bother with a date. Just hook up at a bar
totally a legit question
Where are these girls and why do I never meet them?
6:28 quit your bitching. You must be the fugly one in the crowd and if you don't put out on the 1st date, you won't be getting ANY
Better get yours on the first date cuz you prolly aren't going to see a second
I AGREE WITH 2:22! RIGHT ON BRAH! FUCK PUSSY! ROCK OUT WITH YOUR COCK OUT ALL DAY LONG! GET YOUR DICK WET YEAAAAAAAAH!
Never. Always fuck on the first date. How else are you going to know if he likes you?
Also skanky but whatever. I go with you probably shouldn't be allowed in public.
I don't quite grasp the logic behind a quality screening process in which you still sleep with girl on the first date, and decide she's not worth seeing again. Wouldn't that render yourselves as low grade product?
Get a fucking boyfriend and stop being a slut. Problem solved.
Sex is just sex.. if you feel like fucking then do it.. there is no set age.. just make sure to tell the guy to double bag it.. if you are fucking on every first date u probably have something..
I agree with 6:28. I am not fugly by any means I like to have fun just as much as the next guy. So why does that make me a slut?? Some day I hope this way of thinking is abolished!!!