So we fuck and I say, "I'm about to go." He tells me, "No, leave at ten.. just lay here for a little while." When I ask, "Why?!" He gets his feelings hurt and says, "ugh. or don't." Since when did guys start acting like girls?
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Aww... it's okay to have feelings, guys!!
oh, a guy didn't actually treat you like a slut? what a tragedy.
Girls and guys should be able to act however they want to without being told they're acting "like girls" or "like guys". THAT is equality. There's nothing wrong with what the guy OR the girl in the OP did, it's just their preference. The issue was when the OP brought gender stereotypes into it, which isn't fair for either of them.
Just means he cares. Should feel lucky.
i hate it when guys get dramatic like that! one time i had a boyfriend who cried more then i did. no lie.
I wished I was a girl once...
Later on in life, when you're bitching and whining about "Why can't I find a nice guuuyyy? All guys are asshooooooles! I can't believe he just used me like that!" just remember this moment.
If you don't want him, I'll take him. Nice guys turn me on.
.. since when did girls start acting like guys .. ha
...about the time girls started acting like dudes...and trying to insult men by saying they act like women...a generation of women who have so far internalized the ideas of gender from our male-centric society that they can say things like this without even a hint of sarcasm or awareness of their own ignorance
Why do I have a feeling this happened in College Station, Texas????
Honestly I think i've said this before but shit its not like she said it was a bad thing or laughed at him. Guys make girls feel like shit after and then kick them out, maybe the girl wanted to get out before. Guys don't be such assholes and girls wont be confused when you ask them to stay.
And you wonder why guys are so fucked up. You know who fucks up guys? Chicks. Chicks fuck up guys. And then get pissed because guys are fucked up.
1:49, wow, you seem pretty bitter.
What we have to accept about equality is that it means DIFFERENT WOMEN WANT DIFFERENT THINGS. That's the whole damn point--seeing them as individuals, not as their gender. And by the way, we definitely are not at that kind of equality yet, so I would stop using that word to describe the current state of affairs in our society.
clearly, chicks dig assholes.
If he had a specific time in mind maybe he was waiting on someone seeing/catching him with you.... dont be so vain!
anddd for the right person you can act just about anyway and they will like it she's obvi just not that in to you!
This is sad. Why make fun of the guy because he doesn't treat you like a dirty whore. Wow. Maybe girls these days should stop acting like sluts. I don't understand it. Guys can have feelings and have morals!!! What's wrong with you morons!
I've had this happen to me before too. And I had one guy who lied about where we were going after and I ended up having dinner with his parents...it was so akward to sit there and pretend I hadn't just slept with their son 15min earlier...who does that?
Girl, I know how you feel.
he/she is fugly as hell
Seriously girls like this are setting themselves up for a lifetime of douches who treat them horribly. The sad thing is, that seems to bother girls less and less these days
Hah sounds like my best guy friend
Get yourself a real man.
lmao, i can relate to this guy, i act the same way haha..my ex girlfriend called me the girl in the relationship hahaha..dont worry, it just means he cares very much :) and wants you.
This guy is my current boyfriend....
its really strange and such a turn off.
omg.. this is my ex. i swear. is his name Pablo? cause you basically got him down exactly. :)
That's a guy in the ad. But he probably acts like a girl and wants to cuddle and shit with that long hair.
hooooooly shit story of my life. sometimes i have to make sure its not a full moon.
after guys fuck they let out all there testosterone
LOVE how I know who this is.
he should watch die hard, tombstone, rambo first blood and terminator 2. that should shrink his ovaries.
Alex, I swear to god if that was you...
i had a random hook where, in the morning, she hopped up out of bed without a word and hit the showers. i took that as my cue to leave. i was disappointed, not because i wanted more snuggling, but because i wanted to tap that british ass again.
12:54 you're welome.
I experienced this recently. I hooked up with this guy twice. I have no interest in him. He won't stop texting me and is getting really pissed because I am avoiding him. Shouldn't he be happy that he got head with no strings attached?
that happened to me once, with a one night stand....and right before I left he asked for my e-mail even tho we both knew that was just it.
I don't get men
that was probably a pilot by the name of Mike.....he's a total woman!!! haha
3:11- i think it's quite clear that by "girls" i meant the girls that do what i was talking about. surely you are intelligent enough to figure that out, which leaves only one possibility: you are just trying to be a bitch. you're pretty bad at it, too. so just stop.
Amen 8:02. If a girls not bitching about how much of a dick a guy is she's bitching about him being too sensitive..MAKE UP YOUR FUCKING MINDS
since when did girls start acting like guys?
3:01- You judged all girls with the general statement "girls don't know what they want". Wake up.
removing gender roles is the purpose of major universities.
LOL pansies my ass. Then girls get all pissed off when guys do it to them. This double standard thing is bullshit. Don't start crying when guys are a certain way but when they try to change you call them pansies. Hypocrites. Fucking annoying.
WAIT! IS ANYONE NOT CATCHING THAT AT 1:15 HE ASKED FOR HER EMAIL? WHEN DID YOU LAST GET LAID? who the fuck asks for somebodies email ? hahaha
OMG! WAS THIS DUDE'S NAME JOHN???? SAME SHIT HAPPENED TO ME! UGH! WEIRDO....
since guys started wearing skinny jeans
Lmao they have been doing this for years now! And they actually wonder where we got this from! Hello we were taught this by them!!!!!!!
does the girl being felt up in the ad have a mustache? refresh if you dont see it
what's wrong with cuddling??
8:30PM please die now
4:01 then both parties need to be under the impression that that was the only intention. But double dipping an ex is going to cause that. Hell if I just met you I dont want you staying over, if I fucked you a couple of times it may be nice to get to know you
hahah what a pussy after sex im always like "well i'm tired... u should go now."
I was hooking up with this guy and rolled over just to fall asleep. He was one of the douche bag chavaunstic assholes when I was in highschool. I was shocked when he got all teary-eyed and said "...wait you're not gonna cuddle with me" HA!
1:06 is right, and i'm a guy, i agree. 1:15 - i had a chick's number and we had a one night stand but there's no reason why i shouldn't call once to see if we can do it again. i mean, why not, worst case she says "don't call me"...
Last guy I dated acted like a typical guy at first but soon turned into a total girl, all worried about our "feelings."
Hahaha 2:16 & 2:21...... Thing is.. he's an ex and it was a booty call. 'nough said.
1:15 - we've been taught to do shit like that, not to be a "player" or "objectify" you. other problem is a lot of girls like that shit or at least pretend they do so we think we're supposed to/need to to not piss you off and continue to have sex
i sure don't want a booty call to hang around... I'm assuming that's what it was, even worse if it was a random hook up...
I'm from this area code, REALLY wishing I knew who these people were lol.
You have it all wrong. This man keeps a tight SCHEDULE, "First Hoe outta bed at 10, eat, shower, get the next Hoe by 11."
tahts what i want to know....ugh
1:06 finally got it. I was wondering if anyone would say it.
To answer the OP's original question, guys started acting like "girls" when girls started acting like "guys." Enjoy your "equality."
Since you were a bitch. Good luck when the "manly" man you want beats you or knocks you up. Your never gonna land a perfect guy, get over it.
Lol... i've been wondering this too
haha that totally sounds like something my boyfriend would do
The key here is that while many man are straying from the gender-stereotype of "man be dick man fuck girl then man act like ass", girls are confused with the neofeministic ideals, so fervently displayed. Many go out of their way to disprove the former societal norms, hence the acting like "men". They do however, want to maintain the perks of former norms. Hence the confusion
3:13 i bet he fucked you a few more times then left you huh?
after sex i usually just kind of fling myself off him, get dressed and leave. then you never actually have to talk to him again!
@10:38(OP) You would think he'd just appreciate it, but he didn't screw up asking to you stay for a bit, but when he said "ugh or don't" and started to tear up like a little bitch. Course of action: ask him to stop wearing your jeans and makeup.
ugh i think i dated this guy... after the first time we got together, i said i wasnt staying over and he said "don't go-- wont you just hold me for a minute?"
Orrrrrr, he was stalling for time for round 2.
that guys an embarassment.
Girls acting more like guys is not a problem. We dont need to fill the feminine roll because they dont want to do it anymore. Fuck her and enjoy the peace and quiet when she's gone afterwords.
When they started wearing girl's clothes and emo hair... Pink shirts didn't help the process either...
duuude!i so agree!hahaha since when were guys such pussys?!
im not really sayin its a bad thing to have feelings but damn,sometimes you have to be a MAN.
since when did women start acting like men?
i hate Lesbians with all my heart.
Why is it wrong for a guy to have feelings. I would have said the same exact thing to any of these douche bags' moms after fucking her.
My boyfriend does the same thing. He has more hormones than a woman going through menopause.
I know the feeling
the OP sounds like a stupid whiny bitch. how terriblyyyyy awful that he didn't kick your skanky ass out right after!!!!
ugh. i know what you mean. just when girls started to appreciate booty calls and one night stands the boys start getting feelings.
Maybe he actually cares about you, quit being a fuckin slutty bitch and be glad someone actually cares.
lollllllllll this made me laugh. PMSing much
5:19 you should get "no loitering" tattoo'd above your pussy.
hahah me and my friend have been noticing this. this summer it seems guys are taking on the girls role when we don't want it!!!
Because women seem to think we're all edward or some shit...
If this was a one night stand I'd get it. If this was her boyfriend then yeah they need to not be a couple.
5:37 are you sure your not into girls or maybe bad boys I mean why even be with him..
Apparently he mistook you for a half-way decent human being. You sure showed him.
when you're hotter than they are. True story.
girls should be girls and guys should be guys. unlike the shirt ad where its both.
Ugh. I've dated him. 6 times.
definitely have noticed that guys don't take hook ups very well...
2:29 i'm a girl and i know what i want. to act however i want and not have some dumb bitch like you judging me based on my gender.
2:53- 2:29 here. are you familiar with rhetoric? if you felt that strongly that my statement was a personal attack, you obviously have some major insecurities. no one is judging you. run along now.
lmao. I'm sure he cuddles enough with his boyfriend.
Seriously? Let's quit the bitchin' here.
ha youre sleeping with my boyfriend arent you?!
Yeah, kinda makes a difference if this is a hook up, or a relation ship. I likes me some nekkid cuddles after a good round of sex. Nothing "bitch" like about laying naked in bed with someone you actually love, but yeah, if it is a random hook up, I don't really get it.
i think the problem is if guys act all mushy with every ass they tap then it means nothing. the way guys assume every girl just wants a relationship, we'll assume every guy is a sap so when one guy legitimately wants to be with a girl there is not way to delineate his emotions from the bullshit emo-boys that girl has previously encountered.
its not girls acting like guys, its called having proper "one time hook up" etiquette. most guys dont want girls strolling around after, and girls dont want to stick around either, unless you have a clinger. if you're there to fuck, you're there to fuck and thats that. i dont know when it became such a problem that a girl DOESN'T want to talk to you or cuddle after sex...
ahh it's how the world works. you always want what treats you like shit & fuck people over that are good to you.
lol i totally think this guy is my ex ...i think all guys are taught to be pansies lately
3:43- stop trying to be intelligent.
Oh jeez I went throught two guys like that the next thing out of his mouth will be "but why won't you stay?.. If you liked me you would".. Maybe some people like to be on time!..Duh
Just plain stupid. Karma is a bitch. Laugh at him now, but when you are the one wanting more and your partner sees you as a jizz and drop...we will see who laughs last
Of course, the real issue here is that we heard all this crap about being sensitive for our whole lives, then at the same time, women have been turning wayyyy more "dude" like lately. That equals some confusion for both parties.
Atleast he didnt curl up into the fetal position and sob. Thats how you know hes a real man.
Hahaha the "ugh. Or don't" is such a girl thing to s
"does he look like a bitch?"
They do this because they miss their mommies.
I had a guy once say "arent you gonna at least cuddle" as i was putting my clothes on, I finished getting dressed and left lol
this is all started when beyonce put out that song if i were a boy
maybe he was keeping you around for a roommate to see you leave, hence boosting up his man-hood??
Two words: Guy Liner
6:12 it's becuase you pretended to like him, just go up to a guy and say i want to fuck you and that's it, no guys feeling will ever be hurt, just don't fucking lead us on thinking your a nice girl who wants a boyfreind
i'm a girl but i'm a player like guys used to be. meaningless sex should be kept that way
1:18 & 1:19: ok, yes, I get it, but I already made it clear that I knew the drill and didn't give a shit. it was my last night in the country so I was obviously not going to see him again.
omg hahah i swear its like the whole man race took all of our hormones
12:49...HILARIOUS!!! LOL but it's nice to know not all guys are douchebags... I hope it was good, at least...
hahahaha very true 12:41
That is hilarious
what is so wrong about wanting to cuddle? I don't understand how this makes someone less of a man. . .
it's an epidemic of late.
I thought that was a guy? That ad fucking weirds me out.
I've been wondering the same thing. my boyfriend is a woman too though, I'm used to wearing the pants now.
Im with 12:40, The general acceptance of the pussification of these dudes, perpetuated by the women who like it, has indeed turned a generation of "Guys" into a bunch of bitches
when women started acting like men.
How can he wear the pants in a family as a stay at home dad while mom's a lawyer!
I think it's been since you started acting like guys
2:29 you are my hero
with the right guy that is cute.. but.. if it bothers you then that should tell you something.