I fail to understand. The intention is to sleep with other people to appear less slutty? Have we consulted board of backwards fucks to arrive at this conclusion?
this is an obnoxious thread. who cares what this person does with their life? let them do what they want and you can do what you want. people need to stop being so judgemental about other people and their sex life. you can't control what other people do.
12:55 I love that you actually use the terms pimp and player and still don't consider it to be a double standard. Quite honestly, I think its stupid that because some one initiates it they are absolved of any sluttiness.
You have found a way to justify exploiting someone you think you care about in the interest of aquiring no more than a purely physical sensation. You are being defended by the general public. The sheer level of oblivious self-indulgence is enough to make me sick. I suppose I can draw some small consolation from the inevitability that you will all die unfulfilled and empty.
1:12 So what about when neither party particularly instigates it? Are they then both sluts or both pimps? I don't think sex is as literally give and take as you're making it, which is outdated.
See, this is why I have no choice but to treat women like objects. They're just too much trouble to take seriously in a relationship and if you do you'll be used like the tool you are. Are there even any respectable ladies being born anymore? *sigh*
I AGREE! Girls like to have sex just as much as guys however if we sleep with a guy we really like /wanna date to soon, then we are put in the slut category. This is a perfect solution …get laid while making the guy you really like earn it. Haha I LOVE IT! Smart girl!
this is stupid. bitches is dumb. dudes are fahkd up too. fuck it. who gives a shit as long as you dont have the herpes. i mean its wrong but.......yea i guess its just wrong.
If she's not actually dating the guy she really likes exclusively, there's no reason she can't have sex with another person. Like everyone calling her a whore or a slut is a virgin. Seriously grow up.
youre also a great speller 750...youre probably a 14 year old kid who sits at home and beats off every night to the same girl in a bikini poster, then walks around all badass at school...bitch, ill fightcha ass, mcdonalds, 20 minutes
so he has to earn it when you clearly havent? all you're doing is giving off the illusion of "girlfriend material." you want him to think of you in a certain lifestyle that you dont actually live? you cant earn it yourself? deception, no wonder its hard to trust anyone these days. oh yes and guys who do this are idiots too. I dont find that front to be a good thing for any gender.
this is awesome whore thinking. So when you do get with him are you all fucked out. What happenedbto self respect and loyalty. I really want to know what he'll say to you when he finds out. If he doesn't start at cock juggling thundercunt then he deserves it.
if you cant be honest with yourself and the guy you wanna get with, the relationship will eventually fail. what youre doing isnt smart, it just temporarily blinds your crush from the truth: closet sluuuuuuut
is it really that hard for the girl to use a vibrator for a few days (weeks) if she really likes the guy? what a dumb fucking whore using dumb whore logic. enjoy being used and abused you stupid cumdumpster.
Dude, as long as you're safe about it, do whatever you want. You only live once. If guys are allowed to sleep around and brag about it, girls are too. That doesn't make you a slut, it makes you human. Just because a person doesn't settle for someone and hop on the marrage and 2.5 kids bandwagon doesn't make that person any less responsible.
so many misogynistic posts!! 4:33AM, 6:29PM, 12:11AM, shout out to you ignorant fucks - but so many of you are! i think we can agree that everyone's sexual attitudes are different and personal. those of you spouting your self-righteous moral tirades need to get your heads out of the Bible and stop judging people for their private decisions.
to the original texter, whether female or male: get it!!
I haven't had any in way too long but even when I'm getting a lot (when it rains it pours, haha) I wouldn't screw a fwb or f-buddy while I was dating/trying to see if it might turn into an exclusive thing with a girl.
8:52 - in defense of 8:34 #1, it's okay for most guys to do this, so why not the ladies? just because it's not your personal choice, doesn't make it wrong. to wish AIDS on someone, that's just wrong.
All those that hate 313 are just mad cause they found out i screwed their gfs before they did...prolly why they aren't together anymore. Because their bfs are a bunch of insecure pansies. LADIES, keep up the good work. Always happy to help you out.
i'm pretty sure "girlfriend material" does not include someone who's sleeping around with other men, while she's trying to get another guy. if you really like the guy, you should hold off on others.
For the record, it's not OK for guys to do this either. I don't call them sluts. I call them filthy scumbags. Like that better? Like the filthy scumbags who fucked my slut wife.
I think the arguing about a double standard was more about sex in general and not this particular case. I do love the people saying there are more slutty girls then there are guys. Research much? Right, didn't think so.
so you dont know what self-control is? If I'm looking at a girl as girlfriend material I wont have any other girls on the side. I keep it in my pants. So if a 19 year old dude(supposed hornball) can keep it in his pants why cant a girl(supposed as able to control themselves) do the same? This is a connundrum.
hahaha oh man, this made my night. so instead of fucking the guy you actually LIKE you fuck the OTHER guy? if that's not a slut, i don't know what you guys even consider a slut these days. how can you sleep with another guy but have your heart set on different one?
also, side note: guys who fuck around are also sluts! or if you prefer to call them manwhores, whatev. find a real man that can be honest and secure enough to treat women like they should be treated
Does it matter who instigates it? all that matters is its meaningless sex which makes it slutty for a girl but guys get praise that is what i am saying the double standard is
if you cared about him, you would not be a slut like that behind his back. and i dont know where girls are calling this a double standard, the only guys that think that way are the ones who do that to girls
Way to let society make your judgements for you. Americans have decided to be closed-minded about sexuality and have created shame where there shouldn't be any. Society endorses dressing sexy and being a tease, but if a person decides to share sexual intimacy with another adult and take pride in themselves as a sexual being, then they are chastised for it. Fuck all of you hypocrites.
This is 8:42 no 1, and I think 8:52 needs to suck a dick. It's dating, it's not like I'm exclusive with someone and fucking other people. That's what being single is all about. Sorry you're not getting laid, but that doesn't mean I deserve to get AIDs for being able to have fun.
PS- I've had 20 partners and I'm STI free and have never been pregant, so not everyone that sleeps around is irresponsible and diseased
nope 750, i was gettin your girl off while you were away in english class learning proper spelling. Be sure to order me a number 4 with no onions and a sprite. don't be mad. be me. hahahaha
1:03 - Are you really proud that you have an asshole boyfriend who has had sex with up to (if not more) than 30 girls? Even more interesting, that you're still with him when he talks shit about your best friend. Time to grow up.
12:17 - The girls that DON'T sleep with guys and play games are out there! We're just hard to find because we're not looking for guys at the bar. There is hope!!!
A respectable guy (a.k.a a guy who is boyfriend material) will most likely disagree with this way of thinking, which kind of defeats the purpose, and not wanna be with someone who would do thigns this way. So, if he's really boyfriend material, zip it up. If not, keep trucking.
I've done this before and it's SMART, not slutty. It ended up getting me an amazing boyfriend who I would have ruined things with if I'd slept with him too soon. Fuck double standards...date like a man so you don't get played like a bitch!
That makes you a slut. I would have to say.. If you really liked the guy you wouldn't be whoreing around... you would learn to use a dildo and wait for him!
Why not, instead of not rushing things and having a fuck buddy, not having sex for a bit? Is it really that difficult? Damn, I haven't done it, but really, if you think you'll hit it off with the man, can't you just zip your pants up for a few months?
Who cares if guys are doing it. They're not called sluts because they're called manwhores. A large handful of them are going to make a mistake that results in diapers.
I have the opposite problem. I wish I could have casual sex but for some reason I can't do it without deep feelings being involved, and that's how you get your heart broken ;-(
Wow! The fact that this kind of thinking is so prevalent in our society is the reason why it is nearly impossible to have a true romantic relationship. No woman that thinks like this is "girlfriend/wife material" and until they find a healthier way of experiencing sex and relationships, they won't be. This is truly sad.
From a guy's view:
There's nothing wrong with dating multiple people, but I have to be exclusive with a person to have sex with them. That's just a rule that I have. Doing this makes you a slut, but if you actually like the guy, then sleeping with him does not make you a slut. If you seriously can't hold out the amount of time it takes to get into a relationship, then that's just pathetic.
i totally think the same way as this lady... you have to make a man work for it! so hold out as long as possible girl even if it means bangin some guy on the side
ok why are we saying this is ok to do? im a guy and fucking a girl on the side while dating a girl i like is NOT ok. there is no double standard, you chicks are fucking psycho? girls are the ones who like guys, girls dont like guys who fuck multiple girls at once, therefore it is NOT ok for guys to do it, and it never has been. you are clearly justifying your whore decisions with some sort of retarted, and incorrect, logic.
haha honestly why do you all care so much? it's her decision cool.
i think in a twisted way it makes sense, would i personally ever do it? probably not but who cares, if it works for them let it be.
I'm guilty of not being as honest and forthright with a new girl I'm dating (don't say I want her and how sexy she looks until I think it's the right time and she won't be turned off) but can't we all be more honest and just do/say what we want and feel? If he thinks you're a slut b/c you sleep with him on the 3rd date than he wasn't "boyfriend material" anyway. Grow the fuck up
i totally did this. i didnt want to rush things with the guy i liked.. so i had a fuck buddy on the side. once the guy i liked said he realy liked me and wanted to be exclusive, i ended it with the fuck buddy. and i know plenty of guys who do this to girls. only they arent called sluts, cause they are guys. fuck that double standard.
8:34 no. 1 I have never wanted to kill another human being so much. You deserve terrible things. Hope you die of AIDs or something even more painful, you filthy whore.
1:03am
Your boyfriend is an idiot then. And I'd call the girl at your school a lady pimp not a slut, if she was the instagator that is. Now if guys heard of this girl trying to fuck 50 dudes and they just lined up and she took them all on, yeah, she's a slut.
Aaaaah! I do this too!! I have my on the sides and I hold off having sex with guys with boyfriend potential so they think I'm girlfriend potential too!
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